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Revealed the biggest mistakes guaranteed to sabotage a new relationship

Revealed the biggest mistakes guaranteed to sabotage a new relationship

Some really good insights from the Mail online where psychologists reveal the biggest mistakes guaranteed to sabotage a new relationship.  The article covers a lot ground from rushing the relationship, not enjoying the dating process, not listening enough through to expecting perfection which is not something I am guilty of. Have a read of the article here The Biggest Dating...
The 10 Best Words To Use On Your Dating Profile

The 10 Best Words To Use On Your Dating Profile

Have a read of this great article from The Metro uncovering what are the 10 best words to use in your dating profile, if you are looking for increased success. Better still they have broken the words down into a list for the guys and a list for the girls.  You have no excuse to not make your profile sparkle, maxing out on those matches. Catch the full article here.   The 10 Best Words To Use On Your Dating...
What Women Don’t Want

What Women Don’t Want

We loved this great article from Maxim where women reveal their biggest red flags when dating. Read this guys and avoid them at all costs! Read about what women don’t...
98% of Dating Site Fraudsters are Female

98% of Dating Site Fraudsters are Female

At FlirtFinder we strive to create a safe, fun and lively community of members looking to meet someone new.  We want to have an environment where everyone joins in the same way and are genuinely looking to meet people.  We don`t want a site that is populated with a load of fake members and fraudsters because this makes for a bad user experience. Every dating site gets members attempting to join that are up to no good. To keep our members as safe as possible we proactively police our service to remove members that behave in a manner that is detrimental to these goals. We recently analysed members we have removed from the service and found some unexpected results. When  we looked at members whose account had been suspended for requesting money , or behaving in a manner that would indicate fraudulent activity we found over 98% of them were women.   In fact we found that women were 58 times more likely to be removed from the service for this reason than men. It certainly seems that fraudsters have found it easier to get men to part with their money than women historically, so are focusing their efforts there. The majority of these barred members are because of small scale fraud attempts, asking for a top up voucher for mobile, or money for transport, or a loan as they don`t have credit to send more messages being a common ruses. Men are seemingly much more easily persuaded to part with a bit of money quickly if they think this will get them into a ladies good books, hopefully leading...
Learn the phrases you should never use in your dating profile

Learn the phrases you should never use in your dating profile

Check out this great article from the Independent giving us a heads up on the phrases that are big no no’s in your dating profile. Some wise words and good advice here. Read all about the The phrases you should never use in your dating profile When you use FlirtFinder be sure to take your time writing a compelling dating profile. You may never know how helpful it could prove to be finding love, meeting men or women....
Yin and Yang

Yin and Yang

Yin and Yang is a symbol that is familiar to a lot of people, but do you know what it represents? It is a very old symbol with a Chinese / Tauist origin and represents perfect balance between feminine and masculine. It represents two different, yet complimentary halves of a whole. Even now it is a common turn of phrase to call our partners the other half. There is something important we can learn from this symbol when it comes to finding a partner. We have heard it is an old fashioned opinion, but we when we look at the way men and women behave we see that the most successful members act in a way that is consistent with more traditional stereotypical roles. Put simply masculine confident men that actively pursue women do well.  Feminine women that make an effort, have a number of pictures, occasionally make contact in the form of a wink, or a hot rating, but wait for the man to make contact first do best. Some members contact us not realizing that because you are on a dating site you still have to treat it the same as you would in any other social situation.  If you are male and don`t initiate conversations with women at a bar you will not meet anyone. If you are female and don`t initiate conversations, then there is a good chance a man will still approach you. Think of it like a David Attenborough documentary. What would be the equivalent of the mating dance of the bird of paradise for...